Eco versus Techno?

Dear all,

I am able to compose this letter on my iPad as I have been enjoying a few days off this week on the Isle of Wight! As usual I am right up against the magazine deadline but thankfully because of modern technology it can be met! These few days prearranged have coincided with several pastoral and ministry issues which have needed my attention by email and again modern technology has allowed me to still take time out and not have to cancel holiday time. Sometimes circumstances dictate I have to be available to certain things. Fortunately this situation doesn’t happen all the time in case you’re wondering whether I really ever do get proper time away!

So I was enjoying Radio 4s Thought for the Day earlier and the subject was all about time. The broadcaster was Bishop Phillip North who incidentally will be a speaker at our Clergy Conference this year but more of that another time…. He introduced his thought by telling of an example of a little girl who when asked what she would like to disappear from her life answered ‘my mothers mobile phone’. The mum was spending so much time texting and speaking on her phone that the child felt her mum didn’t have enough time for her. Children always have such a knack of getting to the source of an issue don’t they?! I’m sure though we are all very aware how much mobiles and emails although fantastic for speed have a down side too as life feels ever faster and workload increases because of advances in technology. Time is a commodity and precious. We need to use it wisely and as Bishop North advised put the time to be spent with God and loved ones in first.

Well this month we are inviting you to spend a little of your time with us firstly at Café Church where we will be launching a new initiative as Capel and Ockley work towards becoming Eco church. This is an exciting development where we assess what we do as church towards ecological sustainability. For example we have chosen to use renewable energy, eco friendly products and the fact that our church has nesting boxes for Swifts ensures us bonus points! There is an award scheme and we are hoping to earn a bronze award fairly soon and continue working towards silver and maybe even gold! Eco church is something all the community can be involved in along with our schools with such ideas as making bug hotels and other exciting things. So watch for other news on Eco Church!

Traditional time can be spent in our lovely vicarage garden later this month at the annual Vicarage Fete. I have to say technology has been very useful in advertising this as well as the more traditional routes. This years theme for the children is Disney and all proceeds as ever go to our local schools. This year Racing Pigs return so do come and help us choose some names for them! Another treat to look forward to is John Dales animals with this year the promise of an Eagle Owl.

So use your time wisely and maybe switch off technology for a bit, spend some time with us and hope to see you at one of our many different services – Matins, traditional family communion, Café Church, Messy Church even(?!) or the fabulous Sunday Session. Switch the tech back on though to check out our website! Still www.capel-church.co.uk

With my love and prayers

Liz

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To be a pilgrim

Dear all

Some of you may remember the Diocesan newspaper which was a free distribution newspaper. It was called ‘The Wey’. It ceased publication some months ago now and in its place we have a brand new quarterly magazine for the Guildford Diocese called ‘Living Church’. I can recommend it! The first issue is here and you can pick up your own copy in both Capel and Ockley churches. There are several very interesting articles and one which caught my eye was one on the ancient practice of pilgrimage. It seems that increasing numbers are choosing to go on a pilgrimage and numbers are increasing. In the last decade 30 pilgrimage routes have been created or rediscovered in this country alone. In Europe the number of visitors to Santiago de Compostela has grown so much that more than 300,000 people or should we say pilgrims (!) walked the Camino in 2017. You may have caught a documentary on television before Easter which filmed a lovely but disparate group of people who tackled parts of it. It certainly looked gruelling! However, these days you can travel by coach and walk parts of it; I think that would be easier, but I’m not ruling out doing it myself one of these days if I am ever afforded the luxury of a Sabbatical! Good to have a goal anyway…. It is interesting though when overall church attendance is apparently in decline, the number of people going on these pilgrimages is increasing. Perhaps its attraction is being outdoors, amongst nature, God’s creation and of course it is in a sense praying on the move, even if you don’t necessarily recognise it as prayer. One of the benefits of going on pilgrimage is the fact that one is released from everyday concerns and routines. Becoming a pilgrim takes us out of ourselves, into activity and in the fresh air. One of the advantages I used to find of regularly walking our dogs when we had them, was that however much you didn’t feel like walking beforehand, after half an hour walk, my brain seemed to file everything away that had concerned me and my mind felt much clearer. Well hopefully, we can do that with prayer also, maybe on the move, but in any other ways that we find helpful. This month we are concentrating on prayer quite a bit as we are responding to the Archbishops of Canterbury and York’s ‘Thy kingdom come’ global prayer initiative. The idea is to pray for the 10 days between Ascension Day and the Day of Pentecost, in order to see lives changed and refreshed. We have some lovely prayer resources in the churches for you to take away. There is a beautiful booklet of illustrated pocket prayers giving you a very simple prayer idea for each day. There is also a prayer journal for you to note your thoughts down as you pray for other people and finally a booklet giving you a more set pattern of morning and evening prayers. I have loads, they were all free and they are free for you to take and use or give to others who may be interested!

Also on the subject of prayer we are planning to meet fortnightly at either St Margaret’s or St John the Baptist at 9.30 on a Saturday morning. This is definitely user friendly and all are invited to come and join in led prayers for our new united parish and our lovely village communities. You will see the forthcoming dates in the church service list in this magazine but the first one for this month is May the 5th at Capel. If you have a request for prayer please let me know or put a note on the prayer board inside church.

Last but not least I am sure we are all looking forward to the royal wedding on the 19th May. With that in mind Messy Church have written a special session called Messy Wedding which we plan to run on Tuesday 15th May in the hall at Capel and at the usual time. We are going to be making wedding hats, decorating wine glasses, wedding cupcakes and my favourite, firing eco-friendly confetti out of a canon!! I’ll have to tell our wedding couples about that! All children accompanied by a grown up are welcome and if any grownups would like to come and join in or even be a helper, it will be a case of the more the merrier. With love and prayers Revd Liz

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May 2018 Issue 15 – Pentecost

Welcome to the May edition of Inspire! I am delighted to be able to tell you that we now have sponsors for every month’s issue of InSpire for 2018!
My sincere thanks to those who have sponsored each edition and will continue to do so throughout the year. We will of course be looking for sponsors for the 2019 issues too.

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Easter thoughts

Dear All,

As I write this with the snow on the ground it hardly seems like Easter is nearly here and Spring has almost begun! However, Easter is approaching fast and when we do get the odd lovely warm day, it is a wonderful thing. By the time you read this we may even have celebrated the most important time of the Christian calendar. A time when we travel with the Lord Jesus to Jerusalem, continue with him through the Last Supper and accompanied him to the cross on Good Friday. And then the quietness and stillness of Easter Saturday as we await the joy of Easter morning when his disciples find the empty tomb and find him resurrected in a body which appears to show the marks of his wounding but nevertheless can appear and disappear at will. There are many ways of looking at Holy Week and the season of Easter and each year I find there is more and more to discover about the Easter events. Each event of Holy Week is a part of the Easter story and Easter will mean far more if you consider each one as they build up to the end of the week. What appeared to be a terrible tragedy for the disciples and the hopes and dreams they invested in this amazing man Jesus, was transformed into something far more crazy and simply incredible than they had ever seen before. Disappointment and sorrow that they would no longer see their Lord and Master, dissipated as Jesus demonstrated that as he foretold many times to his disciples, after three days he would rise again, forging a new road through death and out the other side to a completely new life and a new type of body. It is hard to believe isn’t it that this happened, but there are so many eyewitness accounts and things that happened after that first Sunday morning which simply could not have taken place had these events been untrue. Read the gospels for yourself and remind yourself of the Easter story. Try Mark’s gospel, the first one believed to have been written, which gives you immediacy and fast pace through events. Or John’s which is very spiritual and full of meaning, or Luke’s which is carefully written… Until you have read the gospels you really won’t know for sure whether to believe or not!
Well Easter is very much a time for new life and green shoots and so life in our two churches is developing well in all sorts of interesting ways. Ockley are about to begin a building project which will be providing a new kitchen area and a WC for the first time in its several hundred years history. This will be a great relief for many! These projects always take a while to gain funds and momentum but the Friends of Ockley Church have been working very hard to reach this point and we look forward to the new facilities and wish them well with it. Here at Capel, we have appointed a new architect to take us forward for our plans with the boundary wall, especially the part at the back of the churchyard which has fallen down. We look forward to finally being able to really move forward with this project and that of our main church building where new rainwater goods are needed to protect this ancient building.
At the end of this month we will be holding a joint service at St Margaret’s Ockley as part of their weekend of art and craft where childrens and adults artworks will be displayed along with some beautiful quiltwork. Do look out for the notice advertising this later on in the magazine. At Capel, Café Church increases in popularity and along with Messy Church is fast becoming a staple part of our informal worship services. Do come along to Bob Cranham’s Sunday Session (third Sunday in the month 6pm in the Capel Parish Hall) where on behalf of our church Bob and his band provide an inspiring time of contemporary music, worship, thought and prayer. So let us look forward now to some warmer weather and the first leaves of Spring, never forgetting who it is who created this natural world for us. In the meantime may I wish you a happy Easter and Easter joy in these longer days. As we say on Easter day – Allelujah. Christ is risen! He is risen indeed. Allelujah!
With my love and prayers
Revd Liz

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Last year and this…

Dear all

We have had another very full month in church as we held a Special Parochial Church Meeting (SPCM) a couple of weeks ago to review our activities in 2017 and then another SPCM straight after with our friends from St Margaret’s Ockley to appoint our new joint PCC and Churchwardens. This was followed by a celebratory Bring and Share lunch which we enjoyed as two parishes united and looking very much forward to the future. Capel’s SPCM took the place of our Annual Meeting which we normally hold in April and the full report for the past year and our end of year accounts are available in church. However, I thought I would give you a shortened update of what we have all been up to with a few advertisements for this year too. So here goes!

My Chair’s report began with last Easter highlighting a new event on Palm Sunday which was a procession led by two donkeys along the street towards church, re-enacting Jesus’ triumphal entry into Jerusalem. We are doing it again this year so please join us, at Bennetts Green, just past Capel News where we will congregate. Holy Week and Easter continued with Maundy Thursday and Good Friday when the choir sang some memorable music from Bach’s St John’s Passion – this year we are tackling St Matthew’s Passion – just the chorales you realise (!) As usual we enjoyed wonderful flowers and decorations for Easter Day from Betty and Joy and their team and delicious Capel teas were served over Easter too.

Finance has been a big issue for us as for many churches this year and you may remember we sent everyone a special leaflet explaining how regular giving really helps our future planning and to be perfectly honest, our existence as church in this village. We were thrilled that our giving has now increased and are truly thankful to those who have signed up to the new Parish Giving Scheme. However, as you may have guessed, we still have a shortfall and would welcome more new givers. With that in mind a new revised leaflet may in due course come through your letter box. We also were without an appointed Treasurer and so the burden of keeping our finances in order fell to Dineke van der Bogerd, one of our Churchwardens who did a wonderful job of keeping things afloat plus promoting stewardship! Dineke is now pleased to report, as are we all, that we found a wonderful new treasurer in Debbie von Bergen who let slip in an unguarded moment that she was an accountant! And the rest as they say is history. Debbie is a marvellous asset and has helped us hugely since she took over in September and so huge thanks to her and to Dineke for taking on these responsibilities.

For myself as Vicar, I chair the PCC which meets every other month approximately along with Standing Committees to plan the Agenda and conduct church business in between PCC meetings. We have also enjoyed meeting with the team at Ockley to discuss and plan our potential future together and these meetings are always so positive with a real sense of fellowship and great joy and they continue to be so. We enjoyed celebrating with our wedding couples three weddings last year and welcomed several young children into God’s family of the church through baptism. We also shared in people’s sadness as I conducted several funerals all memorable in their own way. Duncan Jennings who was known to many and was a much loved church member, sadly died last summer after a courageous battle with cancer. It was a beautiful summer’s day and the refreshments afterwards were held in church and of course outside too. So fitting for Steffi and the family as one of Duncan’s favourite things was watching the antics of the characters in ‘Last of the Summer Wine’. Very appropriate. In December we held the funeral for Muriel Dale who as many of you know was 108 years old. I will always remember the family leading her coffin on one of the farm trailers drawn by the tractor, having accompanied her all the way from the farm and a small calf brought up the rear. It was a wonderful and fitting occasion. That same young calf stepped in for our donkeys at the Nativity Service a week or two later adorning our nativity scene which was as usual delightful.

Other services have been a great joy especially when we have young members and their leaders of our uniformed groups join us. Christingle, Mothering Sunday, Harvest and Nativity along with Remembrance Day all feature our young people and we are so happy always to see them. We have also enjoyed Café Church which is an informal gathering beginning with refreshments café style whilst enjoying the company of others and some great music played by our new Worship Band. This is a new initiative for which we have to thank Bob Cranham. Bob is a professional guitarist and music producer who has put an impromptu band together. Come and see this fabulous trio sing and play at another new initiative called The Sunday Session which happens once a month on a Sunday evening. I will just say this – the already very lovely Parish Hall is transformed! And of course we held our first Curry and Comedy night in aid of Compassion UK and are delighted to say 14 children were sponsored through hearing the story of a now grown up sponsored child from Kolcutta who taught us how to cook his mum’s curry along with some comedy provided by Steve Legg. Brilliant!

Week by week we continue to be supported by our great organist and choir leader Anthea Smallwood who expands our musical and spiritual horizons and our lungs through our church choir and family communion services. Do think about joining us, we would love to have more voices. We are fortunate to have so many willing and dedicated volunteers of all ages to help us maintain this ancient building and churchyard, keeping it clean and tidy, beautiful and well maintained. People who come and help are not necessarily churchgoers but just part of our lovely village community and we thank you. Then of course, we have the wonderful Christmas trees and switching on with carols, another great Murder Mystery Play for Harvest with the Cricket Club, Capel teas on a regular basis, Messy Church, Mum’s coffees, St John’s Artists, Craft group, Capel lunch club, and so much more. So a huge thank you to everyone who plays a part or who just comes and sits in the quiet of our beautiful building. There is another very beautiful building in Ockley and together we have secured a good future for ourselves, where with your help we will be able to continue having a fulltime vicar in post and be able to follow God’s guidance and leading in serving this wonderful village and parish we call Capel.

Yours as ever and with all love and blessings

Revd Liz

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United at last!

Dear all

This month, I am delighted to be able to tell you formally that we are now according to the new pastoral scheme for the parishes of Ewhurst, Forest Green, Okewood, Ockley and Capel, a united parish with St Margaret’s Ockley under the auspices of the Surrey Weald Team of churches. From now on we are to be known as the parish of Capel and Ockley. The Church Commissioners received no objections to the scheme so were able to ‘make it’ on the 27th December 2017 and it came into effect on the 1st January 2018! This is great news. So what happens now you may ask? Well, you will see in our calendar of services and events that we are now obliged to bring forward what would have been the APCM in this parish in April so that it becomes a Special Parochial Church Meeting. That meeting will be first of two to be held in church on Sunday 11th February at 11.45am in which the main business is to as usual review the past year in church activities and those of the PCC plus an opportunity to review the annual accounts for the parish. That meeting will close the parish of Capel as it stands and will be immediately followed by another Special Parochial Church Meeting which will establish the new united parish of Capel and Ockley! So then we will be up and running!

You will also notice in the calendar that service times have changed slightly. For Capel the weekly Family Communion Service will now begin at 10.30am. The 8 o clock Book of Common Prayer service will now be held every two weeks instead of weekly. For any who may worry about this latter change, sadly numbers have fallen to well below an attendance of 10 regulars; in fact we are doing well if we can count 6! The service at St Margaret’s Ockley will change to 9am instead of 9.30 and will continue to offer Matins and Holy Communion on alternate Sundays. When we have a fifth Sunday in the month which I believe happens 4 times a year then we shall worship together at one church and one service. If you are now totally confused remember this; as I told one of our regular 8 o clockers the other day, if you want Holy Communion just follow me!

So lots of change and adjustment as we settle down together as united parishes but change that will greatly benefit each church and village. We are certainly as congregations approaching our working together with great excitement and anticipation so lots to look forward to!

We are also pleased to offer a bit of an alternative to traditional church in the shape of something called Sunday Sessions which will be an informal gathering where we can relax and discuss pertinent issues for ourselves and our world, along with some mellow music and thoughtful words in the form of poetry and prayer in our Capel Parish Hall on the 18th February at 6pm. Please do read more about it elsewhere in the magazine this month. Also, don’t forget our Curry and Comedy evening on the 8th of this month, but if you would like to come, hurry if you haven’t yet booked a ticket – we need numbers by the 4th of this month!

So, next month I shall be able to give you a review of the church’s activities over this past 10 months at least and a taster of lots of good things to come. Till then, let us remember that in all of these things, in all of our lives, God is with us. Allelulia!

With all blessings

Revd Liz

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