Saving Christmas or Christmas Saving Us?!

Dear all

There is a lot of talk and of course concern as to whether the country can ‘have a Christmas’ this year, or even about ‘saving Christmas’! I understand what is meant here but it still seems quite strange when the whole point of Christmas in the first place is that Jesus was born over 2000 years ago in order to save us, the human race! It may be a different sort of Christmas perhaps depending on how high the Covid rate is in our particular area and I hope by the time you are reading this we will be out or shortly out of this second lockdown. Someone wrote to me recently expressing their wish that the church would speak out about how Christmas is not about consumerism and indulgence but about being kind to each other every day, all the year round which need not happen on the 25th December. Well said of course, dear correspondent and I am pretty sure we would on the whole agree with this sentiment.

Kindness is the key thing isn’t it and I am sure we all hope that we will be able to find ways of expressing that act of love this Christmas and all the rest of the year. In fact I think as a community and as a nation there has been unbridled acts of kindness and compassion in this most difficult and unprecedented of years. Yet of course we all need cheering up amid the winter gloom and many are putting up decorations and getting organised extra early. With that in mind we have organised an Advent Trail around the village on certain days in December. Sally Wyborn and I have been putting our heads together on this and each blaming the other for the idea when approaching likely ‘hosts’! Anyway we have some great things organised so do look out for a leaflet advertising where and when Advent events will be happening. All are designed with social distancing and safety in mind ensuring that people can ‘flow around’ in comfort and a huge thank you to all our hosts in advance!

So at church last month after Remembrance Sunday outside, services have not been allowed to take place but we are looking forward to resuming again on Sunday 6th December unless there are still restrictions in place. The day before the lovely annual community Christmas trees will be decorated and the lights will be switched on – can’t wait! The Christmas lights will be very cheery especially this year! We are also placing a rather special Christmas tree in church this year called the Tree of Hope. We have always had a special prayer tree inside in the Christmas season, but this year we thought it would be lovely if people wished to pop into church and hang a tag on the tree with your hopes and or prayers. Its one of those lovely silver birch lit trees so it will stand out from everything else! Our special Christmas services; Nine Lessons and Carols, the Crib service on Christmas Eve, and Christmas Day services will again we hope be able to take place with all hygiene and social distancing measures provided. In order that we may take necessary arrangements and precautions for these much loved occasions we are asking that if you can, to sign a service list in church with your intention to attend. Of course not everyone may take up their place so if you haven’t signed up for attending a service, don’t fear, still come along and we will find somewhere for you to be safely! We hope this assurance helps.

We know that this Christmas will be difficult for many this year with the worry of unemployment, reduced wages, sickness, loneliness and all the other emotions which become heightened at this time of the year. If you or you know anyone who is in need we may be able to help and especially with regard to food supplies. I am an agent for the Dorking Foodbank in that I can issue vouchers. I will also be holding extra food parcels for those who need them in the run up to Christmas so do contact me in the first instance on 01306 711260. Incidentally the food bank will always give food to those in need even if they don’t have a voucher. It is a wonderful scheme, sadly so much needed and especially at the moment so do reassure anyone that they are so welcome to make use of this great resource.

This last year has certainly been the year of online resources for churches, many still providing online worship each week. We will be providing an online service of worship for Christmas for those who cannot be with us in person so do check the parish website capelandockleychurch.org.uk  for further details of this. It will be online from Christmas Day onwards. The national church has once again published lots of Advent and Christmas resources with their campaign ‘Comfort and Joy’ following St Paul’s words to ‘rejoice with those who rejoice and to weep with those who weep’ (Romans 12.15). We have lots of lovely booklets to give out to everyone with some daily reflections on the twelve days of Christmas featuring many well known Christian thinkers and writers. You can also find them online at www.churchofengland.org as well as much else!

Finally I would like to pay tribute to Pam Cuthbertson and Barbara Grundy along with their team of volunteers who have worked so tirelessly to bring us our community news each month in what is fondly known as the yellow magazine, a real constant over so many years! Thank you all so much! As you know this is the last issue of this current format but all being well you will find posted through your letterbox a continuation of the Capel and Beare Green magazine in a somewhat different style so we are grateful to Pam and Barbara et al and the new team who will carry on the baton of community and village news!

I do hope to see many of you this month and may we all bring comfort, joy and kindness to one another as we once again welcome the birth of the Christ child, who came to bring good tidings, to save us from ourselves and the tendency to consume and indulge given half a chance. So have a lovely Christmas, quiet or otherwise, keep safe and I pray all your hopes will be fulfilled.
With all love and prayers

Liz

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COVID-19 Briefing 24/11

My favourite psalm is 131. It’s a short, tender and intimate song. It reflects the outpouring of a mature faith, expressed in humility, trust and wisdom. After the aspirations and arrogance of youth, the psalmist has found peace, like the contentment of a weaned child. The three qualities and prayers of the psalm have been at the forefront of my mind in the last week or so.

Humility has been noticeably absent in the church, we realise, in just glimpsing the vast resource of Living in Love & Faith, published last week. I’m ashamed of the homophobia experienced by so many people. I hope you will join me in committing yourself anew to listening more deeply to God and others and playing your part in a humbler conversation about human sexuality.

Trust has been further shattered through the harrowing IICSA Report published a few weeks ago. Safeguarding is at the heart of the Gospel. Whilst I don’t expect to regain the trust of some, I hope you will join me in committing yourself anew to listening more deeply to God and courageous victims or survivors, and playing your part in ensuring a safer, more trustworthy church.

Wisdom is rather late to the Creationtide party – highlighted at our diocesan synod last week. I was aghast at the fact that by 2030 the effects of climate change will have plunged another 120 million people into abject poverty. Again, I hope you will join me in committing yourself to listening more deeply to God and scientists and playing your part in being environmentally wiser.

I received an email from one of my colleagues this week who understandably feels rather overwhelmed by these agendas: ‘With all that’s going on at the moment, I don’t know if I have capacity to change people’s attitudes to human sexuality, embrace all the implications of IICSA and solve climate change… certainly not if you want it all done before Christmas!’.

My sense is that this is not all about doing but being, becoming and mature faith. Let’s pray that, through the power of the Holy Spirit, we may be transformed into a church which, reflecting the psalmist, is more humble, trustworthy and wise. Much of this is rooted in repentance, listening and judgement: appropriate themes on the threshold of Advent.

Archdeacon Paul

Critical Reading

Government guidance 

Following recent government announcements we have amended our FAQs regarding reopening churches from 2nd December. You can find them on our Coronavirus page here. Please note that we are still awaiting more detailed guidance from both the Government and the Church of England so some answers may change. It is clear that places of worship in all tiers may open for worship services from 2nd December. We expect building capacity to be based on 2m social distancing between households and the use of face masks. We anticipate further guidance will be forthcoming regarding both public worship in December and during the Christmas period (which may be different).

If you have any further questions please contact parishcoordination@cofeguildford.org.uk.
 

Financial update from Diocesan Synod

At the recent Diocesan Synod, Nigel Lewis (Chair of Guildford Diocesan Board of Finance) gave an update on finances alongside his presentation on the diocesan 2021 budget and forecast for 2022-3. You can see the slides and read the speaking notes here (link).

While there have been huge challenges this year that have led to a large forecast deficit for 2020, the response and generosity of our parishes, who helped us understand their financial position and paid parish share in advance, has been a huge step toward being able to weather the storm. Church House Guildford use of the furlough scheme and holding vacancies also helped to reduce the size of our forecast deficit, as did a one-off contribution from the Church Commissioners.

Looking ahead at the budget for 2021, it looks like another year where our income will be challenged, not least as our parishes recover from a second lockdown. Bishops Council and Diocesan Synod have therefore approved a number of assumptions for the 2021 budget to help reduce the shortfall, albeit still leaving a large deficit. This includes an assumption that there will be no stipend or staff salary increases, a need to reduce parish share shortfalls through the Health & Viability Review, and a need to find further ongoing savings at CHG.

Government launches Faith Engagement Review

The Bishop of London, Sarah Mullally, who leads the Church of England’s Recovery Group, has welcomed the opportunity for people nationally to respond to an independent review on Government engagement with faith communities.

She said in a statement  “Faith is at the heart of so many of our communities, across the length and breadth of the country.  This welcome consultation from the Government is an opportunity to demonstrate and explore how faith enriches and empowers our lives and our relationships with one another.  I believe it can play a fundamental role in building a stronger, more tolerant society for the future.  I would urge as many people as possible to get involved by responding to the consultation, ensuring that the voices of our faith communities are heard.” 

The review, which predates the Covid-19 pandemic, will nonetheless inform how government engages with faith groups during the Covid-19 recovery phase and beyond. This consultation will last for 4 weeks from 13 November until 11 December 2020. 

This survey is to inform a report exploring the following issues:
 

  • the first section asks the question, “Are faith groups, places of worship and people of faith a force for good in society?”
  • the second section explores the extent to which government and its agencies have sufficient faith literacy and considers the partnership between faith groups and the State
  • the third section looks at some aspects where harm might be caused through religious or faith-based practices and a review of the government’s role in tackling them
  • the fourth and final section will be a set of recommendations for the government to consider and respond to

You can fill in the survey here – please share your voice with this important review and encourage your parish congregations to be heard as well. 

For those involved with Church of England schools, there are specific questions on their role in the country’s education provision, so if you are involved in working or supporting a Church school as a governor, member of the clergy or a teacher, do please complete the survey – the questions on schools and education begin at question 33.

For your information 

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Sunday Sermon

In the Bishop’s Sermon for Advent Sunday,  Bishop Andrew looks at the theme of ‘the end of the world’, focussing on the lectionary readings for the day and especially the gospel reading from Mark 13:24-end

You can find out more about the upcoming webinars on our website or if you missed a session, you can catch up via our YouTube channel

Wednesday Webinars 

Worship without singing 
Wednesday 25th November, 7.30-8.30pm 

With special guests Sam and Sarah Hargreaves, who run the Music and Worship Foundation resourcing local churches for creative, innovative and world-changing worship; engaging with God, each other and the world around us

As we return to face to face worship, it is not currently permitted to sing. How can we plan worship that engages the whole congregation in a way that is uplifting, creative and glorifying to God? 

Looking after our mental health
7.30pm on 9th December
 
As Christians, we are called to love our neighbours as ourselves.  How do we look after our mental health, especially in times like this?  
 
We are very glad to welcome Dr Kate Middleton, a clinical psychologist, author and speaker from the Heart and Soul foundation, who will be exploring how we might look after our mental health, signs to look out for and where to get help.

Missed last weeks webinars? Catch up here

An opportunity to connect with our Link Diocese in Viborg, Denmark.
A Creative Christmas, how do we cope with Lockdown and the fast approaching Christmas festivals. Catch up on this practical workshop of ideas. 

Relevant webinars from across the Church of England 

Live-streaming your Christmas services
Monday 30 November, 11am-12.20pm, on Zoom

Join the Church of England Digital team in this special Christmas-themed webinar to answer your questions and help your events run as smoothly as possible. What’s the best set up for a live-stream for broadcasting inside or outside? How do we capture audio from a group of musicians? How can we use pre-recorded music in a live-stream service? 

Publicising your Advent and Christmas events and services on Facebook
Monday 7 December, 11am-12.20pm, on Zoom
Join Emma Sijuwade, Social Media expert, with Amaris Cole and Liz Morgan from the Church of England Digital Team, for tips to promote your events in your local community using Facebook. Covering free advertising as well as an introduction to paid advertising, ideal for novices and anyone seeking fresh ideas.

Caring for God’s Creation
Thursday 10th December 7.30-8.30pm, on Zoom

This webinar marks the launch of the Creation Care awards scheme, which is designed to help households better care for God’s earth. The webinar will feature

  • Bishop Ruth Bushyager, Bishop of Horsham
  • Revd Dr Dave Bookless, Director of Theology, A Rocha International
  • Annabelle South, St Paul’s Action on Climate and the Environment

Resources for Christmas 

Diocesan resources to help you locally until Epiphany 2021

We have had a number of conversations with our clergy and lay ministers this week and we know this is an extremely challenging time. We asked what support you would like from us and what support you wouldn’t. To confirm what we are going to offer this year:

  1. We will continue to share Bishops’ Sermons based on lectionary readings each week (this will definitely carry on to and will include Epiphany – Jan 3rd)
  2. We will continue to host practical workshops (Wednesday webinars) to share ideas on how to survive and thrive in this lockdown period and beyond
  3. We will also create a stand alone all age pre-recorded service for you for the 27th December – we hope that this will encourage a number of you to take a well earned rest. Our intention is that this will be available from mid December for your planning purposes.  If you prefer something ‘classic’ that is not all-age, you may wish to point people to join the livestream from the cathedral’s service of Holy Eucharist.
  4. The Cathedral live-streamed services of 9 Lessons and Carols and their midnight service will be open to all digitally. Links will be provided by the end of this month.
  5. The bishops will be providing an additional Christmas sermon for use in Christmas services. This will be available by mid December.
  6. The bishops will also be providing a 2 minute Christmas greeting (which may be particularly useful if you are doing your own sermon). Available mid December.

Sharing resources from other Dioceses

As normal Christmas nativities and services won’t be possible this year, St Albans Diocese has created a nativity film with accompanying resources. 

This project is called The Hope of Christmas www.thehopeofchristmas.co.uk and is focussed on Christ, God’s hope among us in a year like no other.  The diocesan mission and education teams, the Cathedral and Soul Survivor Watford have collaborated to produce  a heart-warming nativity film (with a real not-quite-perfect school nativity feel).  The film comes with accompanying resources to enable worship and mission for churches and schools this Christmas (either online or in person).  You can watch a short promo film here – https://bit.ly/33g0gT8

They have created a ‘pick and mix’ suite of downloadable resources to help clergy, readers and teachers to tailor worship for their context:
The nativity film is available in:

• Two episodes – i) Hope in Uncertainty and ii) Light in the Darkness
• Full version
• Full version with a Christmas message

PDFs are available for:
• School assemblies / collective worship
• Family and children’s worship and craft session
• All Age service
• Prayer resources
• Discussion session  

For the latest National guidance click here
For the latest Diocesan guidance click here
Next briefing will be issued on 1st December 2020

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weekly news sheet 22/11/20 Sunday before Advent

Dear Friends,

Another week of lockdown and my thoughts are beginning to turn to Christmas and whether we will be able to see our families over the festive period. Signs are that we shall be able to in some form or another but I suspect no large parties.

As you will see from this week’s photo Rev Liz has been getting ready for the Capel Advent Trial which starts with the decoration of the Christmas trees in the churchyard as normal (all socially distanced of course). Liz and Doug are working on a surprise Nativity scene – more news to come later!

You will see from the weekly sheets that Revd Tim Jeffries who looked after Christ church in Brixton sadly died this summer, but they have asked if we would donate presents for one more year. The presents are for adult men and women who attend their Christmas lunch. Please wrap the presents and label them male or female and leave in Capel church for us to collect.

With love and prayers

Debbie von Bergen
debbievonbergen@icloud.com
07774 784008

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COVID-19 Briefing 17/11

From ‘Them and Us’ to ‘Us and Us’…
 
It was a theme that I took up in my rather grandly entitled ‘Presidential Address’ at Diocesan Synod last Saturday: how this Corona-coaster of a year had provided many opportunities for churches, communities and individuals to come together out of a sense of common experience, shared vision and mutual need.
 
‘Them and us’, I explained, can sometimes be a helpful narrative, providing a proper sense of loyalty and commitment, a sense of belonging. It’s important that we’re fully committed to our families, our neighbourhoods, our church congregations if we’re truly to live out our social responsibilities and to exercise our Christian discipleship. But the problem comes, I said, when we forget that those helpful little ‘Them and Us’s are part of a bigger picture of belonging:
 
‘that my little church is part of the ‘One holy catholic and apostolic Church’ stretched across the world and across the centuries; that my neighbourhood is inextricably connected with other neighbourhoods, not least through the complexities of the world’s ecology, of global communications, of international trade, and, of course, of infectious diseases; that Republicans and Democrats are all loyal Americans; that Christians and those of all faiths and none are created by the same God and made in his image’.
 
And perhaps it was the Collect for last week which brought all this to mind, in its focus on God’s great plan of reconciliation for the cosmos, and on a time when ‘Them and Us’ will be no more:
 
Almighty Father,
whose will is to restore all things
in your beloved Son, the King of all:
govern the hearts and minds of those in authority,
and bring the families of the nations,
divided and torn apart by the ravages of sin,
to be subject to his just and gentle rule;
who is alive and reigns with you,
in the unity of the Holy Spirit,
one God, now and for ever. Amen.
 

The full transcript of the Presidential Address.

Critical Reading

Diocesan resources to help you locally until Epiphany 2021

We have had a number of conversations with our clergy and lay ministers this week and we know this is an extremely challenging time. We asked what support you would like from us and what support you wouldn’t. To confirm what we are going to offer this year:

  1. We will continue to share Bishops’ Sermons based on lectionary readings each week (this will definitely carry on to and will include Epiphany – Jan 3rd)
  2. We will continue to host practical workshops (Wednesday webinars) to share ideas on how to survive and thrive in this lockdown period and beyond
  3. We will also create a stand alone all age pre-recorded service for you for the 27th December – we hope that this will encourage a number of you to take a well earned rest. Our intention is that this will be available from mid December for your planning purposes.  If you prefer something ‘classic’ that is not all-age, you may wish to point people to join the livestream from the cathedral’s service of Holy Eucharist.
  4. The Cathedral live-streamed services of 9 Lessons and Carols and their midnight service will be open to all digitally. Links will be provided by the end of this month.
  5. The bishops will be providing an additional Christmas sermon for use in Christmas services. This will be available by mid December.
  6. The bishops will also be providing a 2 minute Christmas greeting (which may be particularly useful if you are doing your own sermon). Available mid December.

Year of Children and Young People – 2021

In 2021, we are going to focus on goal 3 of Transforming Church, Transforming Lives.   The Mission Team and the Diocesan Education Team have worked closely over the last 10 months to develop an approach that is transformative for local churches. This was put to Diocesan Synod on Saturday and was given overwhelming approval. 

You can find the paper here: https://bit.ly/YCYP2021 

The vision for the year is “For our church communities so to welcome the participation of children, young people and their families, that they want to join with us in following Jesus and growing in faith.” 

Many of you are worried about the effects of Covid on children & youth in your church.  This focus is timely for that reason – we aren’t looking to add an additional programme on your schedule but we want to work with you to find ways to grow your youth and children’s ministry in these complex times. 

#SafeguardingAdultsWeek

This week National #SafeguardingAdultsWeek is taking place Monday 16- Sunday 22 November. For more information visit https://www.surreysab.org.uk and look out for daily tweets from both local and national organizations sharing information. If you are able pls retweet @SurreySAB to raise awareness. 

For your information 

Working towards Net Zero carbon in the diocese

Earlier in the year, Alison Moulden took over from Lesley Crawley as our Diocesan Environment Officer (see https://www.cofeguildford.org.uk/making-disciples/improving-church-buildings/the-environment), soon after General Synod declared that the global climate emergency was a crisis for God’s creation and a fundamental injustice. 

The motion called on parts of the Church of England to work to achieve year on year reductions in emissions and to urgently examine what would be required to reach net zero emissions by 2030.  Diocesan Synod passed a similar motion on Saturday, with the instruction to set up a cross-departmental Net Zero Working Group to draw up a plan of action to achieve such a target.  Alison and Peter Harwood will work with the Diocesan Environment Group, Church House Guildford and the Bishop’s Leadership team to bring this about.

Making sure payments are identifiable

A big thank you to all the parishes who have shifted from sending us cheques to making payments electronically, we really appreciate it.  The DBF has been receiving an increasing number of unidentified payments with no remittance advice to say who they are from (these tend to be one-off or individual payments rather than Standing Orders, which tend to have a reference). Please would you ensure that any payments are identified clearly and remittance advice is sent through to remittances@cofeguildford.org.uk so the Finance Team can allocate them correctly. Thank you!

Clergy Study Day 2021

Our next Clergy Study day after the Living in Love and Faith (LLF) on 30th November,  is 27th January from 9.30-1pm on zoom.  The focus will be on “Growing our Children and Youth Ministry” with contributions from Revd Dr Mark Griffiths and Yvonne Morris.  Mark teaches at St Pardarn’s Institute, has a doctorate in Child Evangelism and Church Growth but comes with many years’ experience as a vicar.  Yvonne Morris is the Children’s and Families Ministry Adviser for the Diocese of Oxford.  
 

From time to time, we send out specific invitations by email – please put @cofeguildford.org.uk in your safe senders list.

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The Wintershall Nativity this Christmas

Experience the real Christmas story, as you walk through the beautiful grounds of the Wintershall Estate. Join Mary and Joseph travelling to Bethlehem, meet the Shepherds watching their sheep, spot the Angel as you climb the hill and help the Wise Men find the star. This is a truly unique and magical experience for families.

With pre-booked timeslots, and following Covid 19 guidelines, immerse yourselves in the Nativity, while staying safe. The walk should take 1 ½ hours for a mile long walk through fields and woods across the hills at Wintershall.  There is free parking and hot drinks and refreshments will be available. Tickets are £35 per family group of up to 6 people.

Tickets are now on sale: https://www.wintershall.org.uk/nativity-winter-walk

Sunday Sermon

Bishop Jo preaches on ‘Power and Vulnerability’ – from Sunday’s gospel text for Christ the King, Matthew 25:31-46.

You can find out more about the upcoming webinars on our website or if you missed a session, you can catch up via our YouTube channel

Online and all age services
(note now in the evening) Wednesday 18th November – 7.30pm-8.30pm – Online and all age services
With special guests Nick and Becky Drake from Gas Street Church in Birmingham.
 

Intergenerational worship is tough in normal times – how does one lead children and adults in worship? Online it can be even harder to get right. This is a workshop for creative ideas and learning from people who are doing it well.
 

Mental health webinar 

Missed last weeks webinars? Catch up here

An opportunity to connect with our Link Diocese in Viborg, Denmark.
A Creative Christmas, how do we cope with Lockdown and the fast approaching Christmas festivals. Catch up on this practical workshop of ideas. 

For the latest National guidance click here
For the latest Diocesan guidance click here
Next briefing will be issued on 24th November 2020

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weekly news sheet 15/11/2020 Second Sunday before Advent

Dear friends,

Please find attached this week’s readings, notice sheets and Bishop
Andrew’s sermon.

Stay safe and keep well.

Best wishes,

Suzanne

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COVID-19 Briefing 10/11

The month of November often carries a sombre tone. The days are shorter, curtains are drawn earlier and there feels as if there is less of the day left after work and school have ended.

November begins with All Souls, including, in many places, a commemoration of loved ones who have died. Then we mark Remembrance Day and Remembrance Sunday, each with a different flavour but with the emphasis on all who have lost their lives in times of conflict and prayer for those who are currently serving in the Armed Forces. And as we observe Remembrance we join with millions across the nation and world who do the same.

As Christians our gaze then turns towards Advent and we anticipate the four great themes of the season, ‘Death, Judgement, Heaven and Hell’. The season of ‘preparation for the coming (adventus) of Christ in his incarnation.

This year we have become conscious of a new kind of ‘front line’. No longer is this term used solely to refer to the military or to armed conflict but it refers to those who serve others in a different kind of uniform in the NHS, health and social care, teaching and the essential services which keep society going.

As we remember those who have died this month the experience of loss has come very close to all. For we may feel that in addition to the loss through bereavement we have lost freedom, autonomy or self-sufficiency.

Remembering is a tool that we can use in finding our way into an uncertain and unclear future. When we remember we actually RE-MEMBER. We put together pieces which have become detached from others. The detachment could be because of death but it could equally be through estrangement, misunderstanding or even through lockdown restrictions.

As we continue in prayer for our nation and her leaders what is it that we could be RE-membering which will then be part of the uncertain future into which God calls us? We definitely don’t know what the future holds but we do know who holds the future.
 
Dean Dianna

Critical Reading

Changes in Guidance

We are still waiting on changes but will share what we can, when we can.

We have developed an FAQ based on some of the questions we have received from parishes so far and will keep this up to date. 

There are a number of implications set out in this FAQ however please be aware that the most up-to-date guidance will be found on the Church of England’s coronavirus guidance page  and the government guidance pages (new national restrictions and guidance for places of worship) do check the date at which they were last updated at the top of each page.

If you have questions, please contact the parishcoordination@cofeguildford.org.uk.  
 

Living in Love and Faith 

Yesterday we saw the launch of Living in Love and Faith, an extensive collection of teaching and learning resources to enable the whole church to think more deeply about identity, relationships, marriage and sexuality, in the bigger context of what it means to be human, as those ‘made in God’s image’.

When the work started on Living in Love and Faith – and well before anyone had even dreamt of a national lockdown – who would have realised how important it would become to engage in the kind of open, honest, and gracious discussion that these resources seek to facilitate?

Living in Love and Faith is intended to help the whole church better understand each other and the different perspectives we hold. Clergy in the Diocese of Guildford will be introduced to these resources in a dedicated Clergy Study day (also open to our Licensed Lay Ministers and youth workers) at the end of November.

Bishop Andrew says: “I really look forward to spending time with our clergy and others, focussing on these rich reflections and looking at how we might make the most of them in the months to come. I pray that this process may help to change the way we understand, relate to, and love each other in the church, whatever the theological differences that our discussions might uncover. I also pray that we might understand ourselves a little better through the process, and better model the inclusive, challenging call of Christ in this generation.” 

Resources include a 480-page book, a series of films and podcasts, a course and an online library of other publications in what is thought to be the most extensive work in this area by any faith group in the world. These materials will guide a major process of listening, study and discussion throughout 2021, leading to a process of discernment and decision making in 2022.

Chaplaincy team for LGBTI+ community

In response to Living in Love and Faith we are developing a small chaplaincy team to offer listening, support and prayer to members of the LGBTI+ community and those who stand alongside them. Revd Steve Cox has agreed to head up the team, and we plan to have it up and running by the end of the year. More details to follow. 

Diocesan Safeguarding team – introduction to new members and a goodbye

We are delighted to announce that Jackie Broadfoot has joined the Safeguarding Team as Diocesan Safeguarding Advisor. Jackie brings with her considerable skills, knowledge, and experience from being a Detective Inspector with Surrey Police with expertise in the safeguarding arena, including domestic abuse, diversity crime and risk management.

Since leaving the police, Jackie has worked as a specialist domestic abuse advisor for The YOU Trust organisation, engaging with victims and survivors in hard-to-reach, diverse communities. She has also worked as a tutor delivering leadership training to a range of organisations. Jackie will be working 4 days per week Monday to Thursday per week, and will report to Jane Huttly, Safeguarding Manager. 

Jackie is your first point of contact for safeguarding concerns during normal office hours at jackie.broadfoot@cofeguildford.org.uk or by telephone on 07918 559387.  On Fridays, all calls will be diverted to another member of the safeguarding team. For out of hours emergency contacts, please follow the Reporting link on the diocesan website here

We are sadly saying goodbye to Ian Berry who is leaving Guildford to focus on  his role as Diocesan Safeguarding Advisor in the Portsmouth Diocese. Ian has been a crucial and much respected member of the safeguarding team and we wish him well. 

We are also delighted to announce that Fran Pyatt has been appointed as Diocesan Safeguarding Trainer. This new part time role will be an essential part of the safeguarding team as we move forward with our updated Safeguarding Training Programme.

Fran has worked with TearFund supporting their front-line operations in 35 countries and, more recently, as Centre Manager for Christians Against Poverty. She also brings a wealth of skills and experience as a current trainer and facilitator for adult learning in apprenticeship programs and has an in-depth understanding of safeguarding within a church context. Fran will be working 2.5 days per week, Monday to Friday mornings and reports to Jane Huttly, Safeguarding Manager.

Two Wednesday webinars this week 

Join us at 3pm to hear Bishop Andrew and Bishop Henrik from our link Diocese in Viborg.  One of the blessings of Zoom is the opportunity to meet with people from all around the world. In a unique Wednesday Webinar from 3-4pm tomorrow we will be hearing from one of our link dioceses, Viborg in Denmark, to reflect together on what the Coronavirus has done to our churches, and the wider questions that it’s raised. Four brief contributions from two bishops and two parish priests will inform our discussion – and there will also be time for questions and broader discussion. An optional 30-minute extension will be added to the initial hour for those who wish to take the conversation further (or to stray into the world of Danish mink farms or the background to Brexit!). Register here 

Join us at 7.30pm for a practical webinar for Celebrating Advent and Christmas regardless of restrictions. Emma Coy, from the Mission Enabler team will be hosting with ideas for celebrating the Advent and Christmas seasons with our congregations and communities.  Feel free to come dressed in your best Christmas outfits and bring some festive snacks as we encourage and inspire each other for the season ahead.    Register here
 

For your information 

#PrayerForTheNation further resources

You can sign up to daily reflections and video content here

Day 5 of #PrayerForTheNation, Pete Greig, founder of 24-7 Prayer, leads us in a short time of prayer for family friends and loved ones.

Coronavirus Job Retention Scheme extension – November 2020

Following on from the Chancellor’s announcement last week on the extension to the Coronavirus Job Retention Scheme (CJRS), the government has now published a policy paper providing further information.

Whilst full guidance is expected to provide more detail on 10 November, below is the currents status:  
Overview

  • The extended scheme is to support individuals and businesses who are “impacted by disruption” caused by COVID-19.
  • It will remain open until 31 March 2021.
  • For claim periods running to January 2021, employees will receive 80% of their usual salary for hours not worked, up to a maximum of £2,500 per month (the cap is proportional to the hours not worked).
  • The government will review the policy in January to decide whether economic circumstances are improving enough to ask employers to contribute more.
  • Employees who were on the payroll on 23 September 2020, but who left after that, can be re-employed and claimed for.
  • The job retention bonus will not now be paid in February 2021, but a “retention incentive” will be deployed at the appropriate time.

The full document is available on our website here

Sunday Sermon

Bishop Andrew tackles Matthew 25:14-30, the Parable of the Talents, in our Bishops’ Sermon this week, following the lectionary gospel reading for the 2nd Sunday before Advent. He poses the challenge of whether we have got ourselves into a ‘convenient place’ – carefully placing our talent in a hole in the ground – rather than a place of faithfulness and risk. 

You can find out more about the upcoming webinars on our website or if you missed a session, you can catch up via our YouTube channel

Wednesday 11th November – 3pm-4pm – Contributing to the new normal

Bishop Andrew Watson will be joined by Bishop Henrik and others from our link Diocese in Viborg, Denmark.

The webinar will explore how the Church might contribute to the new normal, particularly in our own parishes and contexts post lockdown.

Please note 3pm start

Wednesday 11th November – Creative Christmas   EVENING WEBINAR: 7.30- 8.30pm

Hosted by Emma Coy, a practical webinar to explore ideas for Advent and Christmas for the whole congregation and wider community. In these ever changing times we will be focusing on things we should be able to do whatever restrictions we are under by then. There will be ideas and resources for you to use with all ages from the very youngest to the very oldest in our communities and also a chance for you to share your ideas too.
 

Change of timing. Wednesday 18th November – 7.30pm-8.30pm – Online and all age services

With special guests Nick and Becky Drake from Gas Street Church in Birmingham.

Intergenerational worship is tough in normal times – how does one lead children and adults in worship? Online it can be even harder to get right. This is a workshop for creative ideas and learning from people who are doing it well.
 

Diocesan resources to help you locally until Jan 1 2021

We have had a number of conversations with our clergy and lay ministers this week and we know this is an extremely challenging time. We asked what support you would like from us and what support you wouldn’t.

  1. We will continue to share Bishops’ Sermons based on lectionary readings each week (this will carry on until at least Christmas)
  2. We will continue to host practical workshops (Wednesday webinars) to share ideas on how to survive and thrive in this lockdown period and beyond
  3. We will also create a stand alone all age pre-recorded service for you for the 27th December – we hope that this will encourage a number of you to take a well earned rest. Our intention is that this will be available from mid December for your planning purposes.  If you prefer something ‘classic’ that is not all-age, you may wish to point people to join the livestream from the cathedral’s service of Holy Eucharist.

For the latest National guidance click here
For the latest Diocesan guidance click here
Next briefing will be issued on 17th November 2020

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November – a time to remember

Dear all
Last month I have been busy preparing for the parish Annual Parochial Church Meeting (APCM) which should have taken place at the end of March this year. Well as we all know so well lockdown happened and everything was put on hold. Well the APCM was finally held last week as I write and we were finally able to put the year 2019/20 to bed!
It was really rather strange trying to think back to 2019 in the light of all that has happened this year – it seemed an age ago and presented a very different picture to that we are experiencing now.

2019 was as in previous years a very full and busy year and we were enjoying very much our second year as two churches together in our combined parish of Capel and Ockley. The highlights included the restoration of the West wall in the churchyard by our stonemason and sculptor in residence (!) Shaun Williamson. Thank you to all who donated towards this work and with the shared costs with the Parish Council and other grants we were able to complete the work to which all I think will agree looks stunning. Shaun has now begun the North side of the wall so you may have seen him in the last few weeks.

We were able to do much in the way of fundraising in 2019 as well, enjoying various events such as the Capel Show barbeque and the Harvest Supper Murder Mystery plays along with the most wonderful Vicarage Fete which raised money for our schools. We also, thanks to Bob and Judy Cranham, enjoyed four wonderful concerts in church featuring jazz and folk musicians, one featured Jaqui McShee from Pentangle. We have thoroughly enjoyed getting to know Vanda and her team at The Crown who very generously allowed us to experiment with Cafe Church at their pub. This has been a resounding success and continues to be so. A huge thanks to Vanda, Vicky and the team and of course Gladys for allowing us entry!!

In church we loved singing from our new sponsored hymnbooks which sadly we cannot use at the moment until congregational singing is allowed again. We welcomed several visitors in 2019, one of which was the remarkable and talented Francis McFaul who is a preacher, musician and double amputee. With his lovely wife Jackie they travelled down from Scotland to join us at our Sunday worship. We were very blessed….
We also had visitors from the States; first a family from Guilford in Connecticut whose church was originally founded by the Revd Henry Whitfield, Rector of St Margaret’s Ockley in the 17th century. He led a group of pilgrims to found Guilford and the church. We then met Pastor Michael Mullins and his wife Shirley who came to visit St Margaret’s as he had traced his ancestry also back to Henry Whitfield. Their church is in Albuquerque, New Mexico and it was a pleasure to be able to welcome them in our Ockley surroundings which they were entranced with!

I have also been blessed to receive the support and ministry assistance of Graham Everness who is a Licenced Lay minister from St Pauls’s Dorking. Graham is much appreciated by us all with his leading worship and preaching. Another blessing for me personally has been the presence of some of our past incumbents who have been invited to officiate at baptisms or funerals. On one occasion three of us were together which was wonderful! Pastorally we have been blessed by Sylvie Beckett who is an authorised diocesan pastoral assistant and she quietly has visited those who have needed a listening ear. We celebrated with those who we married in our parish and with those who came to be baptised; both in fact happened at one of our weddings! And of course we have sorrowed with those who have been bereaved and we said farewell to many much loved members of our community and church family. We miss them all and give thanks for their lives. Each one is precious to us and especially precious in the sight of God.

This month of November gives us a special time to remember all those we have love who have died, at the service of comfort for the bereaved on All Souls Day and also at the Remembrance Day services in both Ockley and Capel on the 8th November. The service will be in Capel at 3pm as usual and we hope to be able to accommodate everyone safely distanced. We will be processing to the war memorial at approximately 3.40pm so do join us there if you would rather not be in church. We will be joined in marking the occasion by a smaller field gun than previously which will fire two blank charges to mark the start and finish of the two minute silence. Please see elsewhere in the magazine and local posters for more information on this.

So we say farewell properly to the year 2019/20 in our parish year – a year of great consolidation as two churches in so many different ways. We look forward to the future, even though we have like so many other organisations and businesses suffered financially and give thanks that despite the lockdown and all that has followed since, we have all risen to the task of continuing to worship and minister to those in Capel and Ockley, our wonderful villages and communities. With uncertain times ahead with Covid, we will continue to be creative and find new ways of supporting one another in church and community I am reminded of St Paul’s words:

‘We are afflicted in every way, but not crushed; perplexed, but not driven to despair; persecuted, but not forsaken; struck down, but not destroyed; always carrying in the body the death of Jesus, so that the life of Jesus may also be made visible in our bodies. So we do not lose heart….’ 2 Corinthians 4. 8-9

With my love and prayers as ever

Liz

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